Halloween Guests

Well, it was a wonderful day and evening for the little 'trick &  treat' people. They were out early while it was still light. It is now 7:30 pm and they are still coming slow but sure - but older. More the grade 5 level. Still...lots of costumes and enthusiasm. One group of three sang a song - don't know the words or ever heard it before - but it was all about candy and different kinds that they wanted - very interesting! Anyway, I gave them extra candy for their effort.


Our neighbor Ken Marj came over about 4 pm as they had to rush to the hospital. His sister was taken in suddenly and they said it did not look good. Her name is Audrey. They dropped all their candy off with us (they had lots) and asked us to look after it. They also gave us their jack o lantern. I have it in the front window lite up! Looks great. I have only done that once and that was a loooooong time ago!


Supper has been candy, candy and more candy. Definitely flying high! It is now 8:30 and no one has come for 45 minutes so I am 'closing down'. More candy for me!

Our neighbors two boys

Their mom is in the costume

Kitty is dreamin' of being black!

Sunshine today but wait...

It was a beautiful day today. The sun was shining and the sky was blue. A high of 8 celcius. It was sad to cover up all our deck furniture but it had to be done. Next week we could have snow!  What a country.

Thanksgiving Leftovers

So we went to our 'early' Christmas/thanksgiving dinner party and after the exchange of our gifts, John ended up with this fellow. He has grown to be adorable to us (well, me).  Anyway, I have him sitting on the dining room table as a center piece for the moment. I thought originally I might put him outside but now I have changed my mind. The little critter is warming himself up to me. He is quite colorful and his neck is made of  heavy wire so he bobbs up and down when you touch him. Almost like he enjoys being petted! I love his fanned tail (made also of metal).  His body is from a coconut. He has  bright, colorful markings. Quite a mixture of ingredients. It is amazing how you can personify an object!!  We won't be eating this turkey (if that's what he is)! Where do people find these priceless artifacts!



gobble, gobble, gobble



Snow...what's new?

It's been a busy week so far. Two days of work which were quite busy, an early Christmas party last night and the visit of my sister-in-law last night as well. This morning, John had to do a funeral today, so... it was 'up early, have coffee, a little chat, he took off, we had breakfast, a little chat and away she went to catch her plane'.  I have a lunch appointment with a friend, and then a meeting at the church to discuss promotion of Stephen Ministry. I am just now doing the Minutes of our Leaders meeting last week and need to 'pull out' some key information.

Anyway, I realize this snow can be depressing for some (and I am not under any emotional darkness) and it is still a bit depressing for me! However, everything is calm and serene. Cool but serene! I know it is going to warm up again by the end of the week so that is a good thing. However, I also know it is not going to stay that way! Winter WILL come! I am not complaining about the snow as I really do like it, I just need to figure out what shoes I can wear as I have not found a good pair of boots yet that my orthotics will fit into. But...that's another story!

Thought for the day...It isn't the load that weighs us down - it's the way we carry it!

Ladies Only Weekend

I just got back from the Womens' Retreat in Red Deer. It was well attend at almost 800 women. A number of ladies were from our church and we know many from other ones as well. It was a good time of fellowship with many and intimate talks with a few. Very uplifting time for us women who like to 'share'.

The speaker, Carol Kent, was speaking on the Journey. She is definitely "in one" as she recounted the story of her only child, who grew up the top of his class, smart, attractive, etc etc and ended up killing his wife's ex-husband. He got a life sentance. He is in a Florida maximum prison. Her story touches on the different stages she has gone through and how she is 'walking' the journey'. If you think life is easy for a Christian, think again.

Anyway, we had a good time. There are always a few kiosks set up for the ladies  (jewellery, handbags, candles, scarfs to name a few).  TupperWare was there along with CandleLight and a number of other names. We just arrived and went through them as first attendees and I purchased right away a new handbag. On special with a small discount for a slight malfunction (which didn't bother me at all). I was looking for hot pink or burgundy but ended up with a teal blue but I love it!!

I immediately transferred everything in my old purse to this new one and it has proved to be the best thing I have done for awhile. One strap is the key that I love the most. No flopping off the shoulder anymore!

A few ladies went out for supper on Sat night and had a good time. It was busy at Moxie's but we did get in and enjoyed ourselves. Women and food - endless conversation and just more of the same for the rest of the evening - what more could you ask for?!



Good time at Moxie's




Morning Brunch a the Capri

 Next year is already confirmed as Oct 21-23, 2011. I need to mark that into my new daytimer!

Ready to Chat

I am off to the Ladies retreat today. Fortunately in Red Deer it is supposed to be sunny and about 10 Celcius today and tomorrow. No rain in the forecast. As for here in Edmnton, cooler, cloudy with rain so I guess I am headed in the right direction!!

I am hoping the Retreat will be a TREAT and I am sure I won't be disappointed. Looking forward to chatting with all the women. Maybe I will be totally exchausted by the time I get home and my hubby won't have to endure too much of "did I tell you about ....??!!" I am sure he is hoping I will use up most of my 10,000 words a day at the Retreat!!!

The price of getting old

I went to renew our out of country travel insurance at AMA today. For some strange reason, I thought I had only paid $189 last year for the two of us.  I know that I have to pay more for John since he is older than me. Goes without saying!  However, today, I too have now moved into the 'next' bracket and subsequently, my price went up also.  Not a lot but at least $45.  However, John also moved into the next bracket as of his birthday a few weeks ago, and his jumped as well. 

We had to fill out the Medical forms this time - well, he did last time too, but this was the first time for me.  However, even doing that, and marking in NO to EVERY  ONE of the questions, indicating absolutely NO health problems with either of us, STILL meant that our insurance premium was increased. Being healthy, only meant that we were still able to GET insurance. 

In some ways, I almost thought we should just 'chance it' but the agent started sharing a story of one of her clients who was 80 and went to the U.S.A. thinking he was in good health (as far as he knew). He did not take out insurance (simply forgot). He took a fall while there and after a number of days in the hospital with a broken leg, they found out he also had cancer.  Well, long story short...he ended up having to sell his house here to pay for expenses there! It gets worse. His wife had died the year before and he was now alone, with no children but lots of debt. What a sad story.

So, I thankfully paid my premium and left with the consolation of good health, an inexpensive premium and hopefully great coverage ..in case of accident or illness!!!

Wizzard - I Wish It Could Be Christmas Everyday

Wizzard - I Wish It Could Be Christmas Everyday

Yes, there can be Christmas every day. Watch it on YouTube!
Who would have known!

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Videos Anita Renfroe

Thought you might enjoy this  - you have to look for it on the right hand side about 3 rows down -  the Wrinkled Ladies.

I am going to try to stop worrying about the weight - life's too short!

Time

I was just thinking to myself and wondering where the time goes? I sometimes feel like I don't get enough accomplished. This morning was no different.  However, I did 'STOP' for a moment and realize that 'you can't do everything' at the same time!!

I started out this morning with the definite need to do some exercise on the treadmill. I did watch the news while I was working out.  Oh yes, before I GOT TO THE TREADMILL, I sorted through some clothes that needed to be washed. John's dirty clothes basket was beginning to overflow - that is always a good sign that it is time to do a wash!! So, before I could get onto the treadmill, I had some sorting out to do.  Alright....now back on the treadmill. Half an hour later, I am upstairs and turning on the computer. (Not a good idea).  However, I did see a message about my meeting tonite that I need to meet our guest speaker at 7 pm as our other leader will not be able to attend the meeting. No problem. I responded quickly. The next email was not so easy. One of our leaders is dealing with a dying parent and will not be able to come to our Thur nite meeting. Another email to encourage and question whether we should cancel the meeting. That will take a few hours to get a response to.

Meanwhile, I decide to try and do my Devotions and review last night's group meeting about the Holy Spirit. I did feel His prompt to read some scripture and my intentions were good. Some reading accomplished and notations made and an update about some of the prayer requests we have been praying about were completed. However, in the back of my mind, I had this nigling thought that I need to get hold of the lady I am going with to the weekend conference. I need to confirm timing, etc. That sidetracked me as I did not have the phone number handy and needed to make a phone call to someone else to get it. In the meantime, I also decided to send an email to someone who could give me the same information.  About 15 minutes later, I found the number I was looking for in my own phone book and made the call! Of couse, she was out until after lunch.  So....one item is on the backburner until later. I wasn't able to 'check off' that one as easily as I had hoped.

Beep, beep, beep, beep. That's my washing machine telling me that the first load is finished. Ok, downstairs to hang things up and put the rest in the dryer. Now, sort through the darks and get that going.  Back upstairs I go to get my breakfast started. Maybe I should have my 2nd cup of coffee now while I have the chance. Yes,,,,goood idea.

It has crossed my mind that I need to get out of my workout clothes and have a shower as I do have a meeting at 12:30 with a lady I met only once. She is going through a difficult time in her marriage so I agreed to meet with her to 'talk'. She said she just needed someone to pray with so I figured I could at least do that with her. I have two hours left but 3/4s of an hour is showering and doing my hair. I really should backtrack that time so I can be 'on time'.

Oh there goes the phone. ATB wanting some information. That took 10 minutes. Anyway, I really do need to get off this computer and get on with my day. I know, I know. You are saying, why did you even bother stopping to do this blog.  Well....it is because it is relaxing! Helps me sort through what my schedule is and gives me a 'breather' in many ways. It doesn't make sense but it works for me.

Oh, oh, ...now....what am I going to wear?

Christmas in October

I just found out that we will be going to an 'early' Christmas party - October 22nd. Why, that's even BEFORE Halloween. Not that I celebrate Halloween too much (other than handing out candy) but it does 'e a s e' me into Fall and eventually colder weather, including snow.  I don't think I can get into the Christmas spirit without a little snow.  Guess I will have to start playing Christmas music to help me out a bit.  "Oh little town of Bethlehem", "Jingle Bells, Jingle Bells, Jingle all the way"..."Joy to the World the Lord has come.".."It's beginning to look a lot like Christmas"....(hopefully not too soon), "You know Dasher and Dancer and Prancer and Vixen"...."Chestnuts roasting on an open fire", ok... you get the picture.

Also, I now have to buy two gifts that we can bring for the gift exchange. I forget what you call the game but everyone brings one gift and you pick numbers and then you can trade for a gift that has been opened or open a new gift. The best number is the last pick. You get your choice of all of them. We have come home with some pretty nice gifts - usually for the grandkids.

Ok, back to my Christmas spirit..."On the first day of Christmas my true love gave to me...."

Back to the Dark

John came upstairs this morning and said "I don't like it". He meant the darkness. Fall is upon us and already at 7 am it is still dark. Oh, dear, what happened to the sunshine at 4:15 a.m. and the bright summer sun that was there when I woke up at 6:30? I guess it moved somewhere else! But there is something about waking up when it is dark outside and putting on the coffee and softly and quietly walking about the house with the dim light of the undercounter lights glowing. I like my cup of coffee and quiet. As I sit here, I can now see the light in the family room of our neighbor switch on and they too are likely enjoying their cup of java before the day begins. The outline of the house is now visible and I know the sun is rising higher.

Back to the business of making lunch, having a shower and doing my hair grrrrrrrrr.....ok, let's not get started on my hair again...maybe 5 more minutes before I start that grind. I will enjoy a few more sips and think of the Rockies and sunrise! Ahhhhhh yes....beautiful!

Still a Cutie!

I couldn't resist showing you the change. Grace was just starting to get a cold but even so she was full of smiles (even at the funeral). Who could resist this smiling face? Not really a big difference from June eh? Still cute as a button! She is definitely bigger but still looks the same.

8 months



4 months



On Our Way Home

We had a great time of visiting our daughter and family and of course celebrated John's birthday too but alas, we had to head for home. 

We took off on Sat morning and intended on overnighting somewhere and it did turn out to be Valemount. However, just outside of Hope we ran into or met up with my brother David & Myrna once more and shared a coffee together. We chatted about the funeral and then we took off. They too will be heading south for a few months on Monday. Ah, what a life they have!!!  That goes the same for my other brother who also heads south for the winter months!  What did we do wrong???!!!

near Spuzzum

 

just past North Bend

We tried going a different route this time and got off the Coquihalla and headed north to Cache Creek but never made it all the way. The scenery was unbelievable and the roads were great but it seemed to be taking 'forever' so we hit the closest side road at Spences Bridge and headed back to Merrit. What would have taken an hour from Hope to Merrit became 3 hours for us! Oh well, we did want to see the backcountry!  We had never come in from the backside of Merrit so that was an experience too. We always wondered what was back there.  Very nice ranching country.



Coquihalla Hwy near Kamloops

We saw remnants of the snow in the Coquihalla around Kamloops but the day was sunny and warm. Beautiful for driving.



By the time we got Valemount, we were both getting tired so decided to rest for the night. My picture is a little blurry as we were moving fast! But...doesn't the moon look great against that dark blue sky?!

The moon at night is big and bright...

Checked into our usual motel and found that a lot of the eating places were closed. Guess the season is over now! Had a good night's rest, and John was able to watch the Eskimos win one! We were up early and able to enjoy the sun rising over the mountains. It was only 1 Celcius! Frost on the ground but beautiful.

Sunrise by Moose Lake

Sunrise in Yellowhead Pass

So, we are home safe and sound. Also, we are happy to be home. It is nice to go and visit but oh so nice to return home too. The sun is shining here also - the end of a wonderful weekend!





Special Time

Our trip to Vancouver for my Aunt Margaret's funeral was amazing. The funeral turned out to be a wonderful tribute to my Aunt. It also turned out to be a beautiful day in Vancouver as well. The sun was shining, no rain and clouds like the day before, and sunshine and blue sky welcomed everyone who came to pay tribute. What a beautiful location. Also, I have never seen the entire process before ...  but family stayed until the end. The 'end' being the lowering of the coffin into the vault, covering it with the vault lid and then the covering in with the dirt. The staff did a wonderful job and quickly covered it, cleaned it up, washed the headpieces of the surrounding gravesites and the bobcat and the trailer slowly moved off the premise, leaving the coffin freshly turned and covered in flowers. The entire process took about an hour. 





Lowering the casket



This was a time for family only. To start with we had the funeral, then the viewing of the body by everyone and then a time of fellowship and refreshments. Then only the family went to the burial and closure. Quite a process but deeply moving. You definitely realize what death and burial is when it is complete. Life is short.



Aunt Margaret's Resting Place




Just a few of the cousins!

 A time of fellowship followed for the family and close friends at Margaret's daughter's home in Richmond. Getting to it from Surrey was a 'trip' in itself. However, it was a great time of getting to meet those cousins we had never met but heard of, those we knew but had not seen for years and the ones we keep fairly regular contact with and wanted to embrace and encourage. A wonderful fellowship time. It was too bad Aunt Margaret could not be there also!

Happy Birthday!

It was a special day for John yesterday as it was his birthday (Thursday, Oct.14).  Of course with the schedules in this household, time was a problem to get everyone together. So....it was a different kind of celebration...a breakfast birthday. We had a 'pancake' bithday cake...literally!
The breakfast table was set with orange tablecloth, sparkles, a 'happy birthday' sign hung over it along with balloons. We had 'bacon & eggs' and pancakes and coffee. The perfect meal!

John got a great gift from the kids. A made up 'crossword puzzle'. Something he likes to do but it was all about him! Took him most of the morning to get them ALL but he did it (with a little bit help from me)! His new shirt and a photo album of some of his key life moments were a hit too!  What a great celebration. Then, before you know it...it was time for school and away everyone went. Still...he will remember this birthday for awhile. Photos to follow!

Beautiful Trip

We had a great drive to Vancouver as the sun was shining all the way. Blue sky through the mountains, you say? Yes, you couldn't have asked for a more day. The leaves are still turning colour and the trees still have lots of them. The closer to the coast you get the more leaves on the trees!

We stopped near Hope to visit my brother & wife who are staying in an RV site while they visit their son and grandchildren. It was a nice break to have a coffee and chat for awhile. There was still another 2 hours or so till our destination. There was an accident on the highway so of course, we moved at a snail's pace. The biggest decision?.....which lane is going the fastest. We only changed lanes once as it proved not to be a big factor in which one was going faster.

Got a chance to spend some time with the newest g'child, Grace, as the kids are all in school. She is growing. I need to download a pic but when I get home.

Funeral is today. Will get to see people we have not seen for awhile. Looking forward to that. We then are headed back on Sat afternoon. The weather is still nice. Lots of sunshine.

Not Enough Minutes

I left the dishes in the sink again this morning as I RAN out the door.  I just did not have time to get them done. You would think I would have lots of time, as I don't work till 9 am and I am only 8 minutes or so away.  Nevertheless, Time got away on me...again!

I was up at 6:45 a.m. and went downstairs to do a 20 minute workout on the treadmill. Upstairs again to make my lunch, turned on the computer and ...... you guessed it! There were a few emails that I needed to respond to and one of them I needed to 'think' about for a response.  Oh, yes, I jumped up to make my oatmeal while I was thinking and then had to quickly gobble it up as I completed my last email. I kept lifting my eyes to the microwave clock and each time I did so, it seemed to be like 10 minute increments!  Before you know it, I was wondering if I had time to take a shower.  Oh yes, I did take it but whether I had time is the question!

I definitely rushed through the shower and of course the biggest part for us ladies is that #!^!SS!7#!^ hair situation!  It is growing longer now so takes even longer to do! Amazingly enough though, I WAS ABLE to get it done, clean off the counter of loose hair strands (leaving the floor full of it though) and able to gather my things and run out the door at 8:50 a.m. 

I kept saying to myself "don't rush' so I would pay attention and obey the rules of the road - in particular, the posted speed limit!  I sometimes manage to manipulate this in my mind when no one is looking!   I made it to work at 8:59.  The only way I can do that is if I have my car clock 2 minutes ahead of actual time.  Yes, it goes without saying I am pulling 'minutes from my future' to utilize my present.

I am settled down into work routine now but will be rushing again when I hit 4:30.  Lots happening tonite and I am already using my 'future minutes' to worry about it in the present!

Couldn't Resist

Ok, I couldn't resist it. She is such a cutie. We are headed out to Vancouver to see her on Wed so I know there will be a big change from this picture in July to now in October. Oh well, who cares. This one is adorable. I can hardly wait to see how much she has grown.

Imitation Baba

Ah, the smell of beets cooking in the kitchen. When you walk in, you would think we were in the 'old country' (according to what I have been told about the old country)!  Anyway, the sun is shining and the beets were cooking. The kitchen was busy with the two of us, cutting up beets, carrots, cabbage and pork ribs.  Ummmmmm good!

Once we got everything under control and all the ingredients into the two big cooking pots, I got started washing the bedroom windows while John got busy watching his football games! For me, it just felt like the right time to do a little cleaning.

Once the beets were done and it was about 1:30 or so, we decided to try them and have a bit of a late lunch. Absolutely wonderful! Oh, how I wished we had a little rye bread or a fresh bun! Oh well. We saw our neighbors working in their yard so we invited them in for a bowl of borscht! They loved it too. What a great afternoon.

I got the windows done, and even got John to wash the outside bedroom, living room and dining room windows while I did the inside. I guess I must have got an extra bit of 'vim and vigor' after that bowl of soup. Just like in the old country!! The women worked hard!

Well, now that it is all done, I think it's time for a little JAVA and relaxin'.  I wonder what's on t.v.?

Thanksgiving Day Chores

The sun is shining again this morning. Last night it looked like winter was coming as it was overcast and then cooled right off and rained! What a contrast to the past week. However, this morning it is back to the same old thing! Sunshine!

On my way home from Calgary yesterday, I stopped in Red Deer for Tim Horton's drive-thru and while idling there, I noticed I had some 'steam' coming out from under my hood. At least I hoped it was steam. I pulled over (after I got my Tim's) and sure enough it looks like I have a crack in the upper most part of my radiator. Fortunately, my hubby had called me (while I was in the lineup) and when I called him back to tell him my misfortune, he told me what to do. Oh, it's nice to have a man around the house (or car)!! I picked up some 'pre-mixed anti-freeze' like my hubby said and to my good fortune, a man walked by at the same time that I was trying to get my radiator cap off. He offered his help. Now that was gentlemanly of him!  I made it home without incident, and now we have to get it fixed. Thankfully, it is high enough up on the rad that I am not overheating. It does not even show on my temperature gauge. Still...it needs to be fixed. Checking out the prices on the internet it looks like a couple hundred $$ for the radiator and likely the same for the labor! I won't say for sure until we check it out. Hopefully it is fixable. I don't want to start looking at cars again.

Today, Thanksgiving Day, we are going to make beet soup. John brought home a number of fresh beets and carrots from the farm so we will utilize them well. We did this last year too. He went out to buy some pork ribs so we can add them to the mixture. Ummmmm good.

We have decided to make the trip (a quick one) to Vancouver for my Aunt's funeral on Friday as well as having a visit again with our daughter and family. We will drive. It should be beautiful even though most of the leaves have fallen but it will still be nice to have some 'alone time' with my hubby.

Better get back to the beets. I am wearing rubber gloves this time as my fingertips were a hot pink for a number of days last year.  It looked like they were overheating too!

Sunrise

I was finally able to get a picture of the sunrise this morning that I told you about in a previous blog. After watching and enjoying the colours and the clouds, it finally dawned (no pun intended) on me to take a picture but my camera was downstairs and it is a big house! In desperation, I finally took a shot of it with someone else's camera but the good sky/cloud/pink colour had already gone. I didn't want to miss any of it so I didn't run downstairs to locate my camera or it would have been finished by the time I got back anyway. So, I took this shot and although it is nice, it is NOTHING like the one 'that got away'.   However, it will remain in my mind forever!  This one still has a bit of the pinky hue to it but still... oh well... I guess there will be others. Let it go, Linda, let it go!

A Farewell

Here's a picture of my Aunt Margaret. She reminds me so much of my dad. This was taken in September, a month before her passing yesterday. We'll miss her.

Unbelievable!

It is absolutely beautiful this morning. The sun is rising in the east to a clear blue sky with a combination of cloud formations. The sun bouncing off the clouds is making them out to be pink and orange and there are open patches of blue that are turquoise and 'cashmere sweater' blue. A new colour!  Unbelievable! That all happened a few minutes ago and now it has changed. I was going for my camera but didn't have enough time. Oh well, it is in my mind now forever! Again....wow!  Oh, wait,... it is now a dark blue in the clouds with lighter pink and mauve on the bottom of the clouds. The horizon remains the turqouise colour. Truly amazing. I don't think I have seen sunrises like this before. It must be that it is Fall and the orange and red and pink leaves are reflecting off the clouds?! Probably not, but it sure looks great.

My aunt died yesterday. A wonderful lady and one I wish I had spent more time with. She was the one who came to the funerals and weddings. The one who always 'showed up'. A hearty laugh...deep and throaty. Her voice was that way too - even though she did not smoke. She was a strong woman. She was the youngest of my dad's family so that is all of them now. They have all passed away. Sad. The whole family.  We will miss you, Aunt Margaret. Rest in peace.

Spa Day

I am visiting my brother and his wife in Calgary and we all are sharing Thanksgiving with friends of theirs and their two older kids. It will be a nice group of people. My brother & wife are  house sitting at their friend's home (very nice!). Anyway, we are enjoying these people's wonderful home and all their special conveniences.

Now, on with the Spa Day.  I am NOT a hot tub person. Could it be the bathing suit that I have to get into? Whatever, I decided to just 'go for it' since it was just family around.  First of all this morning, I had a wonderful coffee with my brother. Then we had a light breakfast of oatmeal (my favourite) and enjoyed some 'small talk'. Next I put on my 'workout' clothes and I headed for the work out room that these people enjoy. I was able to get 'in the groove' on the treadmill and burnt off a number of calories (not going to share how many) and then did a 5 minute attempt on their stairclimber. Not so good. I could not get into any sort of rhythm and almost broke my hip twice when I decided to stop myself but the machine pedals kept going!

Anyway, that finished, I moved on to the hot tub. I had to get into my bathing suit which is always an ugly experience for me. However, I know my brother loves me even if I have a few extra pounds. Anyway, I got into the tub and it is located outside facing a beautiful ravine with the blue sky and white sirrus clouds in abundance! Have I ever told you how much I love clouds! Anyway, Ken and I chatted for awhile in the tub and threw the ball for Alley, the dog, to catch . She could not get enough of catching the ball but she has arthritis so WE have to decide when she has 'had enough'. She kept bringing the ball back to us and dropping it into the hot tub. I am sure her breath smelled like chlorine! I hope she does not get sick as the ball is definitely absorbing the water! It looks really cool when you throw it and it splashes out the water! She doesn't seem to mind picking it up either!

Anyway, next came the shower to wash off the sweat! Oh yes, I did sweat in the water. No wonder they have to use chlorine! Anyway, I had brought my own shampoo and condition but I noticed that they had supplied (or accidentally left) some and I decided to use theirs! The conditioner was a brand that I have never heard of. One of those ones you see in Salon's that are too expensive to buy and you wouldn't even if you had the $$.  I used a bit in the palm of my hand and enjoyed the wonderful fragrance. I can honestly say it made my hair silky and I have been experiencing 'whiffs' of it as I turn my head back and forth. It is delightful!  I took my time getting ready. It is always a little bit longer in someone else's place as you have to find the plug ins, the best light, placing your makeup kit, the hair dryer and curling iron. You name it...it just takes longer.  However, I knew we were on a relaxed schedule.

Once I was done, I headed upstairs to talk with my brother & wife. Very relaxed. We now are getting supper organized. I will have to get back to you on that as we are definitley going to 'put on the ritz' for our company. Everything is going well...sun is shining...clouds are lazily floating in the sky....Yes...we have lots to be thankful for!.

Affirmation

I was reading scripture this morning and found in my bible a piece of paper (one of many pieces) that I was using as a book mark. On it, I had written from a long time ago, the following:

"The Spirit gives life; the flesh counts for nothing. The WORDS I have spoken to you are spirit and they are life." John 6:63  ...and...
"Whoever belives in me, as the Scripture has said, streams of living water will flow from within him." By this he meant the Spirit, whom those who believed in him were later to receive. John 7:38.

We are starting a new bible study which is focusing on the Holy Spirit. We are reading a book by Francis Chan, titled "The Forgotten God". 

 Interesting to me is the affirmation of my perception of the Holy Spirit in this new book and the handwritten note to myself about the Holy Spirit from another time and segment in my life.  Kind of like a 'pop-up' on the web when you hit on something that is tied to what you are looking at already.

Not sure if that makes sense but 'in my inner spirit' I was prompted that I was on the right track in my spiritual walk to now be thinking, processing and praying about the Holy Spirit. Perhaps it was Him who tapped me on the shoulder to affirm me. I like to think that it was and that I will be seeing more clearly how Father, Son and Holy Spirit are one.

Decisions, Decisions

We're trying to make up our mind about a few activities we need to do this fall. One being whether or not we make a big 'to-do' about my hubby's upcoming 65th. I know he would rather be farming than the 'center of attention' at a party for him. He likes to get his attention when he's in control - not the other way around. So, we may just be having supper together with friends or even just ourselves. I am suggesting that 'the two of us' go to Jasper or Banff for a few days and just make this a special memory. It wasn't that he said NO, more like, 'good idea but maybe ..."  Not the response I was hoping for but ... it's not my birthday.  I am not taking it personally, well, at least I am trying not to.

Our daughter just told us that her in-laws are coming to their place for Christmas so that means we'll have to 'find something else to do' this year.  Not quite 'like that' but it still works out to that.  Perhaps we will still go to the Island or even head south. I guess now we can do our own thing.  We'll have to see what that translates into.

Thanksgiving is in Calgary this year with my brother and wife. I had hoped that harvest would be over and we'd both be going but it looks like I might be travelling there alone. That will be ok (or will have to be) but I was hoping that we'd be going there together.

Well, I guess I should go and try to plan a party - even though I was told not to. If he decides we should go away (just the two of us), then the party's definitely off! Then again, it can't hurt to celebrate more than once can it?

Meaningful Memories!

I had an interesting experience today. Dave Lumley walked into the office to meet with one of the employees here. You know what it's like when you see someone (you think you know) but can't place the 'where' and the 'when' to them? I couldn't even conjure up a name.  After he walked out to his car to get something, I asked who he was. Before he came back into the office, she told me it was Dave Lumley. Of course, after hearing the name and then seeing the face, it was obvious. Now, Dave played for the Oilers about 30 years ago. That makes me feel pretty old - I'm not sure how that makes him feel! One of the young men in our office had no clue who he was - not a big hockey fan - but he knows some of the current players.

Anyway, my main point of telling this was simply to say that when he was introduced to me, when he came back into the office, I asked if I could see his ring.  I only meant for him to 'show me his hand extended' but he in fact he removed the ring and gave it to me to hold.  A big diamond on it with 84/85 engraved with the Oilers logo. Very nice. I would think it would be nice to have something like that, a symbol of success, acknowledgement of hard work while accomplishing something pretty spectacular. Well...I think so. 

It reminded me of when I was in Grade 7 in Moose Jaw, Saskatchewan! I was in our school's Field Day and won a bronze medal. Not a red ribbon or a blue ribbon. But a medal. It didn't even have my name on it but I thought it was pretty cool. It was even better than a red ribbon!! I forget now what I got it for - likely broad jump - but the feeling I remember well. I felt pretty important.  Now, that was just for a little effort - can you imagine what it would feel like to be getting a Stanley Cup ring?!!! Wowzers!!! And what about some of those guys who got a ring for a number of years in a row. ahhhh, those were the days.

I'm feeling nostalgic.  Do you remember the song "Where have all the flowers gone?" - yes, gone to young men every one one - when will they ever learn? when will they ever learn.  Now the song has a different meaning than what I am giving to it. I am just referring to how quickly time passes us by. I more aptly can sing 'Where have all the years gone?" 

Ok, ok, it doesn't make any sense at all, but somehow to me, it does. "Make hay when the sun shines", people!

Real Life

I had a pretty good day today. I spoke with my husband who was sitting on a combine while he talked to me long distance on his cell. It really is amazing what we can do these days. We kind of take so much for granted - turn on the light, flush the toilet, turn up the heat, look in the fridge. Well....you get the drift.

I was at church today and spoke with a number of new people as we are in the fall season and starting up some new programs. We have a big 'push' on for people getting involved in small groups. Make the 'big' church a 'small' place by getting to know a few people at a time. It definitely works, it just takes people signing up and 'going with the flow' or 'the program'.  Anyway, I met a few new people. Last week I got into a conversation with a young woman who had two kids and was looking for our Kids 'n Friends group which is for children of divorce or separation. It is a very good program. Coinciding with it, an adults group called Divorce Care which helps those going through these issues. Anyway, much discussion and she shared some of her 'challenges'. Since I HAD been there and done that, I could identify with a lot of what she was sharing. I really encouraged her to get involved in a small group to build some friendships and some accountability for herself. My part will simply be to phone her to see how she's doing. It takes more initiative for her.

Another woman I met today was going through a divorce which involved abuse of their child. I have never been involved in anything like that. It just makes me shake my head when I think of what people are going through these days. I truly feel blessed in what I call my 'normal' hum drum life. I wouldn't want to change a thing. But, it makes me recognize 'all over again' that a lot of people are hurting and could use a friend and a listening ear. These two women are new to church in general. Although they are both hurting and going through difficult times, I truly believe they have made the right choice to come to church. They will find friendship and help here and if they are open to it - they will also find the 'light of their life' and the REAL reason for living.

I also found out today that a few people I know have a cancer diagnosis. Where they go from here is still to be decided. It's the waiting game. Waiting for doctors to phone, for appointments to be set, for treatments to start. In the meantime, it warms me to say that they have a friendship base at church which will support them, pray for them, be with them and help them as required whenever 'that' time requires them to be there. There are so many who are friend(less) and help(less) and without hope.

I have a few more people now that I have to call to 'see how they are doing' but it seems like such a small task when you compare it to what they are going through.

Psalm 86: You are forgiving and good, O Lord, abounding in love to all who call to you.

A Harvest Song

I just couldn't resist this.  As Isla and I were walking yesterday, kicking through all the fallen leaves, we both started singing (for whatever reason) the same song and both of us did not know more of the words than the refrain (which we belted out for all nature to hear)!! No shame here!  It's an oldie but a goodie!  I also couldn't resist putting it in here as I got a call from my hubby last night and he was just waiting for the truck to load up the grain so he had a minute to call me. He sounded like an excited child as he spoke about the harvest and the great weather they were now experiencing.  Bringing in the sheaves, was definitely what they were doing.  This song doesn't seem to lose it's sentiment even in 2010! Thanks goodness for Google so I could find out the lyrics!

Bringing in the Sheaves

By: Knowles Shaw, 1874

Based on Psalm 126:6

Refrain:
Bringing in the sheaves, bringing in the sheaves,
We shall come rejoicing, bringing in the sheaves;
Bringing in the sheaves, bringing in the sheaves,
We shall come rejoicing, bringing in the sheaves.

Sowing in the morning, sowing seeds of kindness,
Sowing in the noontide and the dewy eve;
Waiting for the harvest, and the time of reaping,
We shall come rejoicing, bringing in the sheaves.

Sowing in the sunshine, sowing in the shadows,
Fearing neither clouds nor winter’s chilling breeze;
By and by the harvest, and the labor ended,
We shall come rejoicing, bringing in the sheaves.

Going forth with weeping, sowing for the Master,
Though the loss sustained our spirit often grieves;
When our weeping’s over, He will bid us welcome,
We shall come rejoicing, bringing in the sheaves.

Based on Psalm 126:6
(5) Those who sow in tears will reap with songs of joy.
(6)He who goes out weeping, carrying seed to sow,
will return with songs of joy, carrying sheaves with him.

Pretty interesting, eh? I think I added the link but I have not done it before so if it is not working, try: http://youtube.com/watch?v=u67Lb1RyXTU
 Brining in the Sheaves, Tennessee Ernie Ford - or whoever you might like to hear sing it!



Reading Again

I have started reading again. I am half way through a book I received as a gift called "Having a Mary Heart in a Martha World" by Joanna Weaver.  I got sidetracked a few weeks ago so had to put it aside. This morning, as I sat outside with my coffee, I picked it up once more to give it a go! I was just at the point of discipline - not my favourite subject. I have never liked getting it and didn't like giving it out to my daughter either.

Anyway, she was talking about 'teachable' moments. She had shared a story about her son and finished with the statement  "To learn or not to learn, that is the question. For when we are corrected, rebuked, or chastened, we have a choice. We can receive it, or we can refuse it."  As she is talking about Mary and Martha and the well known story of how Martha asked Jesus to tell Mary to help her get food ready and Jesus replied with "You are worried and upset about many things....Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her."  You don't hear anything more about Martha's response and yet you do see a change in Martha and her (Luke 10:38-42) attitude to a changed Martha in John 11 and 12. 

The reason? A woman with a teachable heart. She took His rebuke and made a change in her life. She listened. Weaver tells us that having a teachable heart involves three things:  "being willing to listen; acting on what we hear and responding to discipline."  When we refuse to listen, we shut Him out.

James 1:22 says "Do not merely listen to the word, and so deceive yourselves. Do what it says."  Guess that means a little 'action' is required by us in our "following through" part! 

Anyway, I won't repeat the whole lesson (get the book if you are interested) but it hit home with me. It's like being told by your parent that you are doing something wrong and instead of accepting it, changing your ways and doing it right, you make excuses for yourself, defending your point of view and/or criticizing others (taking them down with you)! You close your ears instead of opening them and learning.

"Blessed is the man you discipline, O Lord; ...you grant him relief from days of trouble" (Psalm 94:12-13).

Ok, here is another comment she made that has me thinking of a scripture verse in a different way. Still talking about discipline and welcoming it from our Lord instead of running from it (dare I say, asking for it)...she thinks of Psalm 23 like a special song "Your rod and your staff, they comfort me."  Well, I have always thought of the "rod and staff" as tools used by the shepherd to lead, direct and protect the sheep, keeping them in line for their safety. Not as a means of discipline. 

However, I guess she is also right in her thinking.  It's funny how you can see a different point of view or application to life if you give yourself an opportunity to open your mind and heart a bit. I still think of the rod and staff in a positive sense but now I also see them as disciplining tools but used with love for the good of the sheep.

So...I feel compelled to repeat that scripture  "Blessed is the man you discipline, O Lord; ... you grant him relief from days of trouble" Psalm 94:12-13.